Mom doing it all but could use some help
December 17. 2013 12:55AM
Mary has a full house these days. Besides her four children, ages 2 to 16, her 63-year-old mother recently moved in with her. Making ends meet was hard enough for the full-time accountant, but then her employer eliminated overtime in September.
"I used to work 7:30 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. I need to provide for my kids," Mary said. "Since they don't allow us any more overtime, it's been more of a struggle."
Mary's mother has been unable to find work, and while she helps watch her kids, Mary says bills have been piling up. "It's just so hard," she said. "My car broke down, and I have to get new tires."
Mary has two daughters, ages 2 and 16, and two sons, ages 6 and 12. She's hoping to provide them with some of the gifts she knows they would like for Christmas. At the same time, her kids know they won't be able to get everything, such as computer tablets.
On the other hand, Mary says her 12-year-old son is content to get gift cards; this way he can use them to buy household necessities, such as milk or school supplies.
"He's such a good boy, he's always thinking of his brothers and sisters. And he's a great student," Mary said. "I call him the man of the house."
The children's father is not in the picture, Mary says. He doesn't provide child support; he doesn't even visit his children.
Mary says she wants to give her son and her other children special things for Christmas. Despite the challenges the family has faced recently, she says she is grateful, and she wants to instill this feeling in her children.
"I'm really thankful to the Salvation Army for helping out," Mary said. "There should be more places like that, for people who struggle to provide our best, but even now are just struggling."
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