Economy tough on mom of 6
December 11. 2013 7:28PM
Six children, ranging in age from 3 to 18, no husband and a full-time job. One small apartment.
Sofia has her hands and life full, no doubt about it. (See Santa Fund list, Page B3.)
But this native of the Dominican Republic, who has been in the United States for about 20 years, and in Manchester for 15 of those years, is not complaining. Her eldest daughter, Emma, spoke to us because Sofia does not speak English.
Sofia, who is about 50, works — and works very hard — to provide for her children while being both mother and father.
Emma, who is about 30, lives separately and also works. She helps out her mother, three brothers and three sisters when she can.
"I have my own expenses," she says. "But what my mom needs comes before anything else."
Emma said her mother takes as many extra hours as she can get at the Manchester-area factory that employs her.
But the workflow is not always steady. Often during the year, Sophia has her hours cut.
Sophia's household income, between her wages and food stamp benefits, is barely more than $2,000 a month. Her expenses — rent, utilities, heat, car loan and car insurance payments — are close to that, leaving little for other basics, such as groceries.
Christmas gifts for the children, always difficult to buy in past years, have become nearly impossible to afford in 2013, Emma said, as the economy still struggles to recover.
Sophia this year applied for assistance from the Union Leader Santa Fund for the Salvation Army for the first time.
"We try to make it as best we can," Emma said. "The kids know what's going on and that money is tight. We try to be open with them so they know that this year, it's kind of rough, and they're pretty understanding."
Emma said the younger children would love just about any toys.
"Whatever they see on TV, they want," she said. "They write it down and we get what we can get. Sure, it's a difficult situation, but it is what it is and you have to deal with it as it comes."
The generosity of Santa Fund donors makes it possible for the holidays to still be a joyful time. The Santa Fund makes food, clothing and gifts available during the holiday season, so ﬁnancially stressed families can put their resources toward paying bills for basic needs.
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